This is one of those situations where there isn't a really great solution. I have no one to talk to, and I feel like I am doing my mom wrong. How do you think I should deal with this? Should I talk to him or tell my mom? I know my brothers would disown him and I don't want to hurt my dad, but he is killing me. My dad is very secretive, and I have found his porn that is man-on-man.